MissFleece Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 I plan to evict my roommate this weekend, I'm getting a notice and I'm going to request an officer supervise her move on the date she decides. What should I expect, good and bad? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chrysocyon Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 Depends on what kind of contract you and your roommate have and your relationship. You could be stuck with them for a while if they try to fight it and want to take it to court. There are laws that can be abused by squatters to stay in a place months after an eviction without paying rent because of how long the court process takes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onnes Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 I'd recommend documenting, photographically, the current state of your dwelling and possessions. This is useful anyway for insurance purposes if there's ever a fire or burglary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azure Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 a lot of screaming and profanity and unshaded hostility thrown your way that you probably dont deserve. id wear some headphones maybe? while sitting in the living room eyeballing every move they make. nobody steals from me goddammit 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 5, 2015 Author Share Posted November 5, 2015 All I got is a verbal contract (backed up with a recording of the discussion) Things are pretty wish washy relationship wise. She was my ex but we were still on talking grounds and I still give her a ride to work. So hostility is most likely going to happen. Most uncomfortable thing is she'll be moving back in with her mom...my next door neighbor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolflich Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 At least there's no cause to let her leave any stuff behind then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brass Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 If her name isn't on the lease I'm pretty sure you can remove her same day. If she doesn't comply you can get the police involved. I gotta wonder. Why are you kicking this person out on to the streets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamedog Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 "She was my ex but we were still on talking grounds and I still give her a ride to work"... whylike why evne kick her out then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brass Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 "She was my ex but we were still on talking grounds and I still give her a ride to work"... whylike why evne kick her out thenI just don't get it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastryOfApathy Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 "She was my ex but we were still on talking grounds and I still give her a ride to work"... whylike why evne kick her out thenEven friends gotta pay the bills. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamedog Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Even friends gotta pay the bills. judging by older threads i wouldnt consider that to be a friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastryOfApathy Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 (edited) judging by older threads i wouldnt consider that to be a friendEven assholes you tolerate gotta pay the bills. Edited November 6, 2015 by PastryOfApathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 Well I learned she was spreading some nasty rumors after visiting a friend of hers. I figure if I'm such a toxic person, why live with me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamedog Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Well I learned she was spreading some nasty rumors after visiting a friend of hers. I figure if I'm such a toxic person, why live with me?how will you evict someone like that?check your tenancy laws, i know that tenants get like 30 days or so here before being evicted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clove Darkwave Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 I'd say it's overdue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#00Buck Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 I plan to evict my roommate this weekend, I'm getting a notice and I'm going to request an officer supervise her move on the date she decides. What should I expect, good and bad?You'll just let her stay. You were going to get her kicked out before. Then suddenly it was all good again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PheagleAdler Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Whatever you do, don't back down. People like that don't change. Besides, it should be an easy move, if her mom lives next door. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 Whatever you do, don't back down. People like that don't change. Besides, it should be an easy move, if her mom lives next door.I'm trying not to change my mind. She's really good at getting back into my good graces. She must have known I was mad at her because she cleaned the house while I was gone (which she hasn't done in a month) and got a ride to and from work from other people. If I get mad she'll turn it on me, but this time she's getting the fuck out. I've been hurt too much and I can't keep going on like this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 So double posting cuz sorry She cleaned, tried to show she was trying to communicate, and worked out a way to get to work without me...she also told me I no longer had to cook for her...I have no idea what to do. Those were all of my issues with her. Is she manipulating me because she knew I was upset or is she honestly trying to change? Dare I trust her or do I just throw her out? God I feel like shit... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revates Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 You said it yourself she's really good at getting back into your good graces. And I think it sounds like she can tell that you're upset and is manipulating the situation. People don't just suddenly change, I think it'd be best for you in the long term to evict her. Stick to your guns MissFleece. Whatever you do goodluck! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 (edited) You said it yourself she's really good at getting back into your good graces. And I think it sounds like she can tell that you're upset and is manipulating the situation. People don't just suddenly change, I think it'd be best for you in the long term to evict her. Stick to your guns MissFleece. Whatever you do goodluck!okey doke. In that case I'll stick to the plan and give her the notice when I'm slightly more sober.Edit: Told her she needed to move, she sobbed and ran off with a friend, and ketchup fucks wont leave me alone. I feel like shit Edited November 7, 2015 by MissFleece 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#00Buck Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 I bet she's back in less that 48 hours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamedog Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 (edited) So double posting cuz sorry She cleaned, tried to show she was trying to communicate, and worked out a way to get to work without me...she also told me I no longer had to cook for her...I have no idea what to do. Those were all of my issues with her. Is she manipulating me because she knew I was upset or is she honestly trying to change? Dare I trust her or do I just throw her out? God I feel like shit...So what you're saying is that she's done basic human things that everyone should do (i.e clean up after yourself, make sure your house is in a liveable, sanitary condition, cook for yourself because you are an adult, find a way to work by yourself because you are an adult, etc) ONLY and I mean ONLY because she had been told to leave?She'll go back to her old waysGIVE HER THE BOOTGOODBYE, SLOB. I DIDNT CHOOSE THE SLOB LIFE SO DONT MAKE ME LIVE IT Edited November 7, 2015 by Gamedog Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 So what you're saying is that she's done basic human things that everyone should do (i.e clean up after yourself, make sure your house is in a liveable, sanitary condition, cook for yourself because you are an adult, find a way to work by yourself because you are an adult, etc) ONLY and I mean ONLY because she had been told to leave?She'll go back to her old waysGIVE HER THE BOOTGOODBYE, SLOB. I DIDNT CHOOSE THE SLOB LIFE SO DONT MAKE ME LIVE ITShe cleaned and stuff knowing I was mad at her, not after I told her to leave.After I told her to go she left and hasn't been back since. I honestly haven't been less stressed like this since she first moved in. I'm pampering myself, lol. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brass Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 She cleaned and stuff knowing I was mad at her, not after I told her to leave.After I told her to go she left and hasn't been back since. I honestly haven't been less stressed like this since she first moved in. I'm pampering myself, lol.She's coming back with the cops. She's going to tell them that you raped her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 She's coming back with the cops. She's going to tell them that you raped her.oh man dont joke, thats why I was so mad at her to begin with. She got back after visiting with a friend who said her boyfriend tried to rape her and tried to say I was forceful with her in the beginning of our relationship, and how that damaged her trust of me and ultimately lead to us failing. Luckily I am also prepared for this, and can out lawyer her pretty easy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 oh man dont joke, thats why I was so mad at her to begin with. She got back after visiting with a friend who said her boyfriend tried to rape her and tried to say I was forceful with her in the beginning of our relationship, and how that damaged her trust of me and ultimately lead to us failing. Luckily I am also prepared for this, and can out lawyer her pretty easy.Did she have a Tumblr by chance? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 Did she have a Tumblr by chance?both did, lol. God damn this is like watching a train wreck in slow motion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 both did, lol. God damn this is like watching a train wreck in slow motion.Yeah, I assumed so. Seems like you were stuck with quite the manipulative little brat. I'm sorry you have to deal with her. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamedog Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 She cleaned and stuff knowing I was mad at her, not after I told her to leave.After I told her to go she left and hasn't been back since. I honestly haven't been less stressed like this since she first moved in. I'm pampering myself, lol.good!im very proud of you! toxic people need to be removed from our lives. they should not be allowed to poison us deliberately through their arrogance and laziness 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azure Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 awesome show, great job!now enjoy the silence and peace 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sourdough Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 good!im very proud of you! toxic people need to be removed from our lives. they should not be allowed to poison us deliberately through their arrogance and lazinessThe true enemy. They must be destroyed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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