Gator Posted November 12, 2015 Share Posted November 12, 2015 you know, that feel when your own life is in the toilet and you realize the people you care about are just as bad off and there's not a damn thing you can do for anybody, including yourself.one person is stuck doing everything for an ungrateful familyanother is living with parents who are simultaneously indulgent and abusive, one of them drunksomebody else is hopping state to state, jobless, leaving their family behind and refusing to seek helpnow i find out someone else, still a minor, has been taking adhd meds for who knows how long and experiencing all the possible negative effects... while, once again, being stuck in a shitty household with neglectful and abusive family members. aside from talking to them when possible and listening to their problems, what can i even do? i'm in no position to actually be helpful to anyone; i don't have my own house, a job, a car, money... anything that would be of any use. and with the way my own life has been going, i'm running low on advice and support, too. they can't help me and i can't help them, and nobody seems to be getting any better any time soon. it just gets harder and harder to "hang in there" as years go by and nothing gets better for anybody. i'm lost any more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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