Vallium Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I never did get the hate towards media and pictures and stuff, its almost always some oldfag who's grumpy about "this generation" and griping about "back in my day". I get that some of their concerns are legitimate, but at the same time I think its also part jealousy that they didnt have things to make tasks and jobs easier.There are people who think the word "selfie" is stupid, and maybe it is a little odd and sounds like a word made by a 14 year old white girl, but its simply a word used to describe the action of taking your own picture, "picture of yourself taken by you" is a bit to say, therefore we created a new word for it. I also dont see what the big deal of people taking pictures of themselves is. Maybe because people scoff because it shows you lack friends to take pictures for you? Not only that but some people seem to think people who take pictures of themselves are "vain" and "self absorbed". Isnt that a negative way to look at it, though? What about self confidence and self esteem, I think if someone wants to take a picture of themself and feel good about themselves, why not? The other day someone said I was a "selfie person", I dont really consider myself one, I just take pictures, most of which I delete, when I feel like it. Confidence-wise it helps because I like the pictures I can take of myself more than pictures Im captured in with other people taking it, I look awful. That, and I take selfies a lot because I have a lot of online friends I commune with, so gives face to my text and words, and makes it a good alternate forms of social communication So to conclude, do you "selfie", take the occassional photo of yourself, and do you find other people who do it annoying or do you not care? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarcastic Coffeecup Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I hate selfies, I don't take them and if someone takes a pic of me I hope it's without me knowing so I'll appear natural. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aidy Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 i'll take the occasional photo of myself but i never share it, i despise photos of me regardless of who took themwhat i do hate are people who go out and buy selfie sticks, then stand in the most awkward of places in the middle of a city with their idiot friends so they can take a shit selfie of themselvesnot to mention the people who risk their lives - and have managed to kill themselves - in order to take the 'perfect' selfie, but i suppose it's natural selection at work those are the people that piss me off, otherwise i couldn't really care less about them, they're just photographs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hectichusky Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I don't understand the hate at all; if you're going to outwardly express disdain for self portraits, why not all portraits in general? Why not the whole of photography? Selfies are just a result of the popularized front-facing camera which enables the user to aim a camera at themselves while keeping a steady eye on the viewfinder at the same time. It's a dream to use and makes taking pictures of oneself a breeze. That's why it's popular - not because this generation is suddenly self-engrossed and narcissistic. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charrio Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 Selfies only came around after Myspace and such, the internet culture of I want to be famous look at me.People never shared such crap before, no one really wants to see it. How many times do you think people want to sit and look at slides?Selfies are self promotional fluff, just to get attention not really for any real family purpose or such anymore just to be seen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarcastic Coffeecup Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I don't understand the hate at all; if you're going to outwardly express disdain for self portraits, why not all portraits in general? Why not the whole of photography? Selfies are just a result of the popularized front-facing camera which enables the user to aim a camera at themselves while keeping a steady eye on the viewfinder at the same time. It's a dream to use and makes taking pictures of oneself a breeze. That's why it's popular - not because this generation is suddenly self-engrossed and narcissistic.But taking a thousand pictures of oneself is pretty narcissistic. I've yet to see a person who stops at one selfie.On a side note I adooooore duckface selfies. They're the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vallium Posted September 26, 2015 Author Share Posted September 26, 2015 I hate selfies, I don't take them and if someone takes a pic of me I hope it's without me knowing so I'll appear natural.Im the opposite, I hate how I look if Im not prepared for a good picture. and for photography in general you usually have to take many shots to get a good one. I do the same when taking pictures of animals or moving objects. It may not necessarily be about being self absorbed or narcissistic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hectichusky Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 But taking a thousand pictures of oneself is pretty narcissistic. I've yet to see a person who stops at one selfie.On a side note I adooooore duckface selfies. They're the best.I'll do u one better m8meetthe double chin selfie! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aidy Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I'll do u one better m8meetthe double chin selfie!that's beautifuljust beautiful 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolflich Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 Doesn't make much sense to me personally. The picture I took for the thread before was the first one I've done in months and it wouldn't even occur to me most of the time.That said, it makes no difference to me if other people take loads of pictures of themselves. I might find it annoying if I was on social media being flooded by their uploads but I'm not, and I could just unfollow them anyway if I was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarcastic Coffeecup Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I'll do u one better m8meetthe double chin selfie!1UP brah. Nice. I wanna see a double chin duckface selfie now. I bet that'd blow everyone's mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Machine Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I dislike selfies. It's really annoying how ingrained it seems to be in society because, apparently, not taking pics of myself and throwing them on Facebook means I have low self-esteem and want to die or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hectichusky Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 1UP brah. Nice. I wanna see a double chin duckface selfie now. I bet that'd blow everyone's mind.Haha I'm not that self-degrading! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarcastic Coffeecup Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 Haha I'm not that self-degrading!Way to crush my hopes and dreams :C 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derin Darkpaw Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 People always seem to immediately equate the selfie with an act of narcissism when an argument can instead be made for the selfie as an act of confession. This video here brings up some interesting points in that regard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolflich Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 In some ways I think it's almost an attempt to return to normalcy. Communicating in real time with people you can't see or hear is the more recent and unusual thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sutekh_the_Steak Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I don't really care about them to be honest. They're only photos. Whether they're narcissistic or not (which personally I don't think they are), it's hardly something worth criticising anyone over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 In defense of selfies, an articleAnotherLook, I like selfies. Selfies can reconfirm that I'm not actually this disgusting, unlovable hambeast, instead I'm actually an average-but-sometimes-cute fat lady to my friends and family. I don't think Selfie's are inherently narcissistic, but are just tools for insecure people, or people with low opinions of themselves, or even sometimes just to share a cute outfit/look/face. I think a selfie is a self care tool that should be used to help you feel better about yourself. I know that when I started taking selfies, there was finally a way I could have a picture of myself that I could make sure wasn't unflattering. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charrio Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 In defense of selfies, an articleAnotherLook, I like selfies. Selfies can reconfirm that I'm not actually this disgusting, unlovable hambeast, instead I'm actually an average-but-sometimes-cute fat lady to my friends and family. I don't think Selfie's are inherently narcissistic, but are just tools for insecure people, or people with low opinions of themselves, or even sometimes just to share a cute outfit/look/face. I think a selfie is a self care tool that should be used to help you feel better about yourself. I know that when I started taking selfies, there was finally a way I could have a picture of myself that I could make sure wasn't unflattering. I agree with that, but still a lot of people seem to overdo it i will say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidhenearlahi Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 The only pictures I even have of myself are usually taken by my roommate after she uses me for makeup practice, I don't really feel any compulsion to take any pictures of myself most of the time. Which actually annoys my family a bit because that includes during special events or social gatherings, there are rarely any pictures of me to share.I do think some people go overboard, but I don't necessarily believe it's out of vanity or narcissism. Not all the time, anyway. Rather I think it's actually a matter of compulsion and some insecurity. Some people have a phone with hundreds of near identical selfies, not because they like looking at themselves, but because they're so desperate to make sure that they can give only their best, their prettiest, their most attractive. They want, or need that confidence boost in the form of recognition and praise from their peers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaraphayx Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I don't hate selfies themselves but I've been around people who have this seemingly compulsive need to always be taking pictures of themselves and I would be lying if I said it didn't unsettle me. These aren't people I'd call narcissistic either, but getting them to do anything without pulling out their phones is an impossible task. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayattar Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I rarely take selfies. Usually as the signs that I've been somewhere. Two or three for every major journey, making about 5% of all the photos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calemeyr Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 My selfies always come out wrong, I don't know why.True story: When I was going home last weekend for my birthday, I was behind a open convertible full of stereotypical Malibu girls fussing with their hair. One of them had long stick on claws nails. They then pulled out a selfie stick and took a picture while at a stop light. I din't think that much stereotype could exist all at the same time. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vallium Posted September 26, 2015 Author Share Posted September 26, 2015 I agree with that, but still a lot of people seem to overdo it i will say. I do agree with the overdoing thoiugh, its the reason why so many people are worked up over such a banal concept. I dont use any of my accounts to post numerous selfies, theyre for art (or dank memes) and I may upload selfies here and there for personal reference because I like it as an ideal representation of myself now and again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 I take pictures of myself very rarely. I don't feel a need to constantly be reassured of what I look like through a picture. A mirror is fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AshleyAshes Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Oh cool, I can actually hide Aidy's obnoxiously long signature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinterWolf397 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 The only time I ever take selfies is if I want a new profile picture (on average, I change it every 5-7 months or so) or it's just an agonizingly slow day, and I want to post something to quell my boredom. I don't really mind if other people like to take a lot of them though, they're just pictures to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summercat Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Selfies? None of my business. I don't take them [occassionally a photo, mainly for other reasons], and don't care if others take pictures of themselves. I mean, seriously.It doesn't hurt me, it at most wastes my time, and I've got other things to be rage-y over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hewge Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 I remember the days back when the art of a self-portrait was merely referred to as the act of taking a photo of oneself. Oh, those were the days!The darn youth and their desire to make up terrible words to replace a perfectly fine word that already exists. Absurd! Oh, woe. Woe to the future of our wonderful Earth, for she shall be infested with those that deign to abuse the -word- of... "selfie". 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evan Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 (edited) i'm pretty neutral, but the people who have -thousands- of selfies for their facebook pic kinda tend to suggest that they feel the need to size themselves up or have some level of attention seeking. that's what i see in that, at least. not to say wanting to feel good about themselves is a bad trait, because sometimes it can aid low self esteem, but when publicly displayed, this intent sometimes becomes clear to the viewer and sometimes that can send the wrong message.Oh cool, I can actually hide Aidy's obnoxiously long signature.you know, when i saw the title "selfie person"/"selfie culture" i thought the exact same thing Edited September 27, 2015 by evan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AshleyAshes Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 you know, when i saw the title "selfie person"/"selfie culture" i thought the exact same thingIt looks like it doesn't STAY ignored when you refresh the page or go to any other thread. Jesus, his signature is like twice as long as any given post of his. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaraphayx Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Oh cool, I can actually hide Aidy's obnoxiously long signature.Thanks for posting. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vae Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 I take a lot of "selfies" because I just... really feel good about myself some days,and sometimes I want to look back on what I was doing and the fun I was having at the time.If someone wants to dislike that, ain't my problem.Other people's insecurities about themselves are not my responsibility. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaizy Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 I don't hate selfies themselves but I've been around people who have this seemingly compulsive need to always be taking pictures of themselves and I would be lying if I said it didn't unsettle me. These aren't people I'd call narcissistic either, but getting them to do anything without pulling out their phones is an impossible task.Yeah, this pretty much. I have no problems with people taking selfies, but people who do it in excess and are taking multiple selfies a day is just a bit overkill imo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazerMaster5 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Selfie sticks are stupid. End of discussion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidhenearlahi Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Selfie sticks are stupid. End of discussion.See, I used to think the same thing until my roommate decided to pick up a sailor moon themed selfie stick, mostly just because it was designed to look like that wand from the anime or something like thatAnd, outside of actually being used for selfies, the selfie stick is actually crazy useful for high angle and sweeping shots for both general photography, and video recording.In theory, selfie sticks sound awful, but having used one in practice they're so much more interesting and useful than they seem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarcastic Coffeecup Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Selfie sticks are stupid. End of discussion.Don't even get me started on these. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sar Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 (edited) Fuck selfies and everything that they stand for. /thread Edited September 27, 2015 by Sar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mikazuki Marazhu Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 I don't hate selfies themselves but I've been around people who have this seemingly compulsive need to always be taking pictures of themselves and I would be lying if I said it didn't unsettle me. These aren't people I'd call narcissistic either, but getting them to do anything without pulling out their phones is an impossible task.upvoted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aeroxwolf Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I don't hate selfies, but fuck this song and everyone associated with it.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kdemFfbS5H0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Signy Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Yep. We've failed as a species. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazerMaster5 Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Yep. We've failed as a species.Is this the real life? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Signy Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Yep. Apparently it's an actual product. Cinnamon Toast Crunch was offering it for free as part of an advertising campaign. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazerMaster5 Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Welp, I don't want to live on this planet anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aeroxwolf Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 Yep. We've failed as a species.the horror, the horror, the HORROR! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansitru Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 Yep. We've failed as a species.Please tell me that's satire. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sar Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 Please tell me that's satire. I see tourists walking around with them like idiots in the city centre.Yep. Apparently it's an actual product. Cinnamon Toast Crunch was offering it for free as part of an advertising campaign.Coca Cola jumped on the bandwagon with those as well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Signy Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 Please tell me that's satire. Yep. Apparently it's an actual product. Cinnamon Toast Crunch was offering it for free as part of an advertising campaign. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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