Rant: I'm Tired

[FlynnCoyote]

There was a time where you may have had my pity. There was a time you asked for help and received practical advice from myself and others here. Clearly none of it has sunk in because in spite of whatever positives this place has, all you can do now is focus on the negatives and the things happening for others and not you. Other people are popular. No shit. Some of these people have been around for fucking years. Others are just naturally charismatic and slot into the forum easily like a dick in a homo's ass. Like that bunny whatsisname. The rest of us just what, fill out the gaps I guess?

Point is, they're having a positive effect on this place not because they're trying to, but because they're just genuinely posting here to have fun. There is nothing necessary about this, it is entirely a leisure activity. Even the mods are volunteering and are free to stop doing so at any time.

Now. You come across as someone who treats this place as a need. You want or need gratification from other people to make yourself feel worth something, but that's not what these forums are for. Online friendships can happen sure, but not if you force them. Like I said, the people who others react positively to here do so because those people are genuine. And few represented this better than Red, which is why it's really fucking insulting to use her in your rant like this. What you want is childish and petty, and what you need is something you cannot find here. Not like this. Sort yourself out with a psychologist and come back when you know what's wrong with you and can get a lid on it. Worked for me.

In closing, I almost pitied you but now I hate you. Toodles.

Edited April 12, 2016 by FlynnCoyote

[Vallium]

9 hours ago, Endless/Nameless said:

Oh come now; unless they've read the thread it came from, nobody's gonna know what the heck that even is.

At least not at that size.

Yeah I know, I was making a joke, shoulda added the smilies after a srs post

Honestly that thread where that avatar spawned amuses me I in no way meant harm

5 hours ago, FlynnCoyote said:

Some of these people have been around for fucking years. Others are just naturally charismatic and slot into the forum easily like a dick in a homo's ass. Like that bunny whatsisname. The rest of us just what, fill out the gaps I guess?

 

I agree, Feelwell and Cingal are big homo dicks

No but for srs props to those guys theyre still new to these particular forums but they make out well enough that I recognize them from their frequent posting and like them already

[Vallium]

@Terminal7 

Regarding Gem (I doubt youre around to still read but I cant quote and I have a say regarding her)

You had entirely missed the few posts where other people defended Gem as well, it wasnt a circlejerk, it was a debate. People agree and disagree all the damn time.

 

But you know,I have a lot of respect for Gem, she's a tough as nails lady, maybe a bit kooky and a nutcase and off with explaining and knowledge at times but she's got a good heart and doesnt let random people on the internet bother her

 

After further investigation she made a SECOND thread where she thanked those who had given criticism and put more thought and research in it (spending more damn money to take her child to another specialist) before giving her child the mind-altering drugs people were worried about.

 

Its the internet. People bicker. But you can be a person like Gem, or you can be a person that feels like theyre being personally attacked, ignored, or left to the side and give up.

Edited April 12, 2016 by WolfNightV4X1

[Vallium]

12 hours ago, 6tails said:

Gem brought that nonsense on herself by not actually understanding the words being said to her and ignoring the advice of people

From what I saw, not at all. She may have been largely ignorant and confused when making points but she didnt blindly ignore people, again like I said, her very next thread stated that she got extra help and evaluation before she made a decision like that

[Feelwell]

30 minutes ago, 6tails said:

From yet another improper doctor for the job. She also likely made that decision while drunk and on the same medication.

None of these were a smart move.

I never met Gem, but I'd assume the drinking was caused by the stress, and any doctor would likely notice that the mother bringing her child in was drunk. Can only hope at this point, but it seems things could've been worse.

 

1 hour ago, WolfNightV4X1 said:

I agree, Feelwell and Cingal are big homo dicks

._.

[Feelwell]

1 minute ago, 6tails said:

Australia. Drunk is the typical sober around there.

Perhaps I put too much faith in medical professionals, but I like to think they'd find something objectionable about her being drunk.

Call me an idealist.

[Victor-933]

1 minute ago, Feelwell the Rabbit said:

Perhaps I put too much faith in medical professionals, but I like to think they'd find something objectionable about her being drunk.

Call me an idealist.

Yeah but it'd be a Australian doctor so they'd probably be more worried if the mother showed up sober.

[Guest]

Don't make this worse than it already is. Stay away from this place for a while. Think about what happened, reflect, then come back

[Zeke]

1 hour ago, Feelwell the Rabbit said:

I never met Gem, but I'd assume the drinking was caused by the stress, and any doctor would likely notice that the mother bringing her child in was drunk. Can only hope at this point, but it seems things could've been worse.

 

._.

Between handling her kid with "Opperant Defiant Disorder" and ADHD and her partner with cancer, it was taking a toll.

[Feelwell]

1 minute ago, Zeke said:

Between handling her kid with "Opperant Defiant Disorder" and ADHD and her partner with cancer, it was taking a toll.

Maybe we'll hear back, but I hope she's doing well, and continues to get well. 

[Sidewalk Surfboard]

Just realized this thread was about something entirely different. OP, being a self centered little brat isn't going to make you more popular at all.

Edited April 12, 2016 by Sidewalk Surfboard

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Zeke said:

Between handling her kid with "Opperant Defiant Disorder" and ADHD and her partner with cancer, it was taking a toll.

Yeah, I reckon that's a lotta shit to handle...

[Spot]

25 minutes ago, Sidewalk Surfboard said:

Just realized this thread was about something entirely different. OP, being a self centered little brat isn't going to make you more popular at all.

I caught your edit, talk about way off.

[Sidewalk Surfboard]

1 minute ago, Mr. Fox said:

I caught your edit, talk about way off.

The title threw me off :V
But anyways, Terminal7 is a really accurate username for OP, because they have Stage 7 Terminal Butthurt about not being a popufur. Plus, being jealous of a deceased member because they were more popular than you is the most dickish thing I've seen in all my time on Phoenix thus far.

[Spot]

Just now, Sidewalk Surfboard said:

The title threw me off :V

Who reads threads anyways, ain't nobody got time for that. :v

But yeah he obviously needs to get his real life priorities in order more. Spending every waking moment on forums is as unhealthy as fuck no matter where you are, and the OP is a clear indication that his real life is severely lacking... I actually feel a little bad for him. 

[Xaende]

Only engage to the extent that it makes you happy. Try to keep an emotional distance from negativity. Don't try to cause problems, but focus on what you enjoy rather than being entangled in their perceived issues. Wish others well, and do your best to let it go. Save your greatest attention and energy for your loved ones and other real world responsibilities.

[Mapa]

All this energy spent complaining and being jealous could be put towards actually trying to improve yourself. It might be hard to accept that you have a problem, but you're going to have to if you want to stop being so miserable.

[Vallium]

@Feelwell the Rabbit

Dammit dont listen to 666tails, she was NOT drunk

He's saying she was "drunk on the same medication she was giving her kid". Gem wasnt alcoholic, and quite frankly making false jokish claims like that is stirring trouble while she isnt even around

(Also the homodick comment was a joke based on Flynn's post)

Edited April 12, 2016 by WolfNightV4X1

[Guest]

Look @Terminal7, you may feel like an ass for what's happening here. I did stupid shit too on this very forum. Users called me out on my bullshit, and yet once I aknowledged I was in the wrong and improved on my shortcomings, the people here were kind and tolerant enough to let me back in. So even if you fucked up it's not the end of the world. We all make mistakes, you made yours, now see to it that they get fixed. I know it's much simpler said than done but no one said it was gonna be easy

[Feelwell]

3 hours ago, pothocket said:

All this energy spent complaining and being jealous could be put towards actually trying to improve yourself. It might be hard to accept that you have a problem, but you're going to have to if you want to stop being so miserable.

Say, don't hot pockets provide, energy?

 

3 hours ago, WolfNightV4X1 said:

@Feelwell the Rabbit

Dammit dont listen to 666tails, she was NOT drunk

He's saying she was "drunk on the same medication she was giving her kid"

Whatever did happen to Gem, in many ways it's not my business, I'm just naturally inquisitive. I wish her the best, but I don't think I'll ever have the privilege of meeting her. Nor will I form opinions before I've met her.

Edited April 12, 2016 by Feelwell the Rabbit

[Mapa]

3 minutes ago, Feelwell the Rabbit said:

Say, don't hot pockets provide, energy?

I'd be more inclined to say they drain energy.

[Feelwell]

3 hours ago, pothocket said:

I'd be more inclined to say they drain energy.

If you get tired while making a hot pocket, you probably don't deserve that hot pocket.

_{Words to live by.}

[Mapa]

13 minutes ago, Amiir said:

Look @Terminal7, you may feel like an ass for what's happening here. I did stupid shit too on this very forum. Users called me out on my bullshit, and yet once I aknowledged I was in the wrong and improved on my shortcomings, the people here were kind and tolerant enough to let me back in. So even if you fucked up it's not the end of the world. We all make mistakes, you made yours, now see to it that they get fixed. I know it's much simpler said than done but no one said it was gonna be easy

Listen to this guy. I think people will respect you so much more if you can bounce back from this.

5 minutes ago, Feelwell the Rabbit said:

If you get tired while making a hot pocket, you probably don't deserve that hot pocket.

_{Words to live by.}

It's not that, it's more like one of those foods that I keep coming back to even though I always regret eating it.

[Feelwell]

3 hours ago, pothocket said:

Listen to this guy. I think people will respect you so much more if you can bounce back from this.

It's not that, it's more like one of those foods that I keep coming back to even though I always regret eating it.

Don't feed the addiction, man.

Switch to those delicious, and likely equally unhealthy, stuffed and breaded chicken breasts, with broccoli, ham and cheese.

[Mapa]

3 minutes ago, Feelwell the Rabbit said:

Don't feed the addiction, man.

Switch to those delicious, and likely equally unhealthy, stuffed and breaded chicken breasts, with broccoli, ham and cheese.

I think I know exactly what you're talking about and now I want one. They come raw too, so the long cook time would probably be good for me.

[Feelwell]

3 hours ago, pothocket said:

I think I know exactly what you're talking about and now I want one. They come raw too, so the long cook time would probably be good for me.

If you make one, send one to me, because now I need one as well.

Maybe they're addictive.

[Feelwell]

3 hours ago, 6tails said:

Excuse me, no. She was drunk AND on the same medication. Screencaps a few posts back are quite enough evidence of that (or I can be a real ass and bust out the PMs in my inbox.)

Now now, what if we're all drunk (ignoring the fact I and a few others won't touch alcohol with a ten-foot pole) and we're all imagining this as in some weird group dream.

But in all seriousness let's not get over a fight if she was drunk. The past is the past, whether she was drunk or not has become a moot point, all we can do now is hope it all went well. 

[Luca]

You were in the wrong mind to join these forums in the first place. Putting in the time alone won't make people like you if you're generally unpleasant. I didn't rejoin faf/here just to have people who want to kiss my ass all day. I did it to make friends again, to get to know cool people. I don't want the whole forum following me around anyway. I'd be uncomfortable if I was treated the way other users here are...

[#00Buck]

I'm un-popufur. 

The only reason I get any likes is because of volume posting. 

[BagelRabbit]

...wait, is this forum seriously something that's that important to some people?

Well, then.

I visit here once every few weeks and type words in response to other words. If someone dislikes the words I have typed, they occasionally let me know. I generally don't type any more words to them though, because they're usually right and occasionally wrong-beyond-any-hope-of-convincing. And then I leave for a little while.

So far, it's worked marvelously. I don't have much of a reputation either way, but it doesn't really matter.

I guess what I'm trying to say here is: I don't want any attention or anything... at least not on here. If you want attention, that's okay, I guess. If you need attention, then you will be disappointed and frustrated. This is not only the case on this forum, but it is also the case literally everywhere else in your life.

Plan accordingly.

-Bagel

[Toshabi]

Abloo bloo bloo, I'm not a popufur!

 

Abloo bloo bloo, people that died got a memorial thread.

 

Abloo bloo bloo u gaise r jerks everybody betray me i fed up with this wurld.

[Sidewalk Surfboard]

1 minute ago, Toshabi said:

Abloo bloo bloo, I'm not a popufur!

 

Abloo bloo bloo, people that died got a memorial thread.

 

Abloo bloo bloo u gaise r jerks everybody betray me i fed up with this wurld.

 

[Terminal7]

Thanks.

I'm not sarcastic. 

Edited April 13, 2016 by Terminal7

[Endless/Nameless]

@Terminal7  OOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHH I finally remembered who you are! So sorry, your different avatar threw me for a loop. I'm the type of person who can't recognize someone if they simply arrange their hair differently. 

People in your earlier threads have tried to be nice and help you, but in your mental state at those times you couldn't accept any of it. Which is wholly understandable for someone in your condition; not good, but not unusual in heavy depression. The problem is, acting like that makes it really hard and frustrating for other people to deal with, and that's why people lashed out back at you. Not because they dislike you, but because you were being difficult. That's not your fault.

People will forget. Even this thread will be lost in time. Don't run away, just own it. 

[Sidewalk Surfboard]

20 minutes ago, Terminal7 said:

Thanks.

I'm not sarcastic. 

Just because you're serious doesn't excuse your self-centered attitude, buddy.

[Terminal7]

@Endless/Nameless

It's not going to be forgotten until maybe months from now. 

I'm just going to keep things closed from now on. People are trying to escape negativity, not help it. 

 

[Endless/Nameless]

Just now, Terminal7 said:

 

I'm just going to keep things closed from now on. People are trying to escape negativity, not help it. 

Well, sometimes you have to. I know what you mean.  

[Gamedog]

On 2016-04-12 at 8:30 PM, Terminal7 said:

I don't want to talk to other forum members anymore as I hate them

im sorry but youre nuts

good luck wherever you go i guess

3 hours ago, #00Buck said:

I'm un-popufur. 

The only reason I get any likes is because of volume posting. 

i like you

[Flake]

5 hours ago, Terminal7 said:

I'm just going to keep things closed from now on. People are trying to escape negativity, not help it. 

People in this thread have offered you useful advice and encouraged you to try again with less negativity. Whether you take that onboard or let it go to waste is up to you.