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Anyone else ever get that crappy feeling that they're not especially valuable?

Like, you can be good at one thing but there are people around you that can do it better and more?

Feeling really drained all the time, realising you're not as socially active as you could or should be, but making no attempts to fix it because it scares you, leaving you feeling lonely and sad?

This is an accurate description of how I'm feeling. It's pretty dandy.

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6 minutes ago, DrDingo said:

Anyone else ever get that crappy feeling that they're not especially valuable?

Like, you can be good at one thing but there are people around you that can do it better and more?

Feeling really drained all the time, realising you're not as socially active as you could or should be, but making no attempts to fix it because it scares you, leaving you feeling lonely and sad?

This is an accurate description of how I'm feeling. It's pretty dandy.

Pretty much exactly this. I got loads of free time now, but somehow I can't motivate myself to start using that time efficiently. Pretty much started hating myself over it, but on the flip side there's hope. Gotta make a start and keep at it, problem is, I don't know when would be the best time for the greatest chance at success. What I believe to be the major reason is that there is nobody there to back me up on whatever I wanna do. During the week though, gotta maintain the responsibilities and that keeps me busy/makes me believe I'm spending my time well. So I'm making ends meet and keep on going 'till that time is here. I am not blaming anyone IRL, but it would've been swell if anyone actually cared 'bout my interests and personal growth. Unless you are good at what you do, but dang making a start is hard as all hell.

On the other hand though, I do tend to ask people around me for passive feedback - without them even realising it - and somehow that leads to unusually positive results.

PS: I should just stop playing games all the time and start coding or artsing or what have you.

PPS: I don't even know how hard I'm missing the ball relating to your problem, interpretations be hard on me tonight :V

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@Nomris

You've pretty much hit the nail on the head. I'm a university student, and whenever I stay in my room instead of going out, I have time to mull over these sorts of things. And loneliness doesn't feel especially nice. But hey, gotta get on with my life.

That said, my life doesn't consist of much. Either I'm doing scheduled learning, I'm in my room, or I'm on a tiring night out that I'm not enjoying

.. Getting a girlfriend is gonna be pretty hard

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1 hour ago, DrDingo said:

Anyone else ever get that crappy feeling that they're not especially valuable?

Like, you can be good at one thing but there are people around you that can do it better and more?

Feeling really drained all the time, realising you're not as socially active as you could or should be, but making no attempts to fix it because it scares you, leaving you feeling lonely and sad?

This is an accurate description of how I'm feeling. It's pretty dandy.

It happens when you don't specialize in anything but instead want to try it out a bit before moving on to something else

So I know this feeling quite well

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52 minutes ago, DrDingo said:

Anyone else ever get that crappy feeling that they're not especially valuable?

Like, you can be good at one thing but there are people around you that can do it better and more?

Feeling really drained all the time, realising you're not as socially active as you could or should be, but making no attempts to fix it because it scares you, leaving you feeling lonely and sad?

This is an accurate description of how I'm feeling. It's pretty dandy.

Yeah, all of the time. I also often wonder why I bother doing anything when chances are nobody will give a shit about it. "Do it for yourself" only gets you to a point. It's like, yeah I accomplished something and am kind of proud of it, but if nobody else thinks so... what do I have to be proud about? Thankfully I'm just starting to chug along despite these feelings. Only question is, how long will it last?

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I'm in the process of moving. I had this weekend off and was going to transfer the bulk of my stuff from old place to new one but weather decided

Nope

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Whole year... barely any rain... but the one weekend I have off and need clear skies so my things don't get ruined is the one weekend California remembers its an el nino year.

Right now I'm just like:

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But on the plus side my new house has its own pool and hot tub. <: I am super stoked on that. Once it stops being colder than a witch's tit in a cast iron bra I plan to pretty much live in it constantly.

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2 hours ago, Hux said:

My social skills are shit. Literal shit. Like, human feces.

same fam

No, but seriously - despite how easy it is to get discouraged, I feel like it does get easier over time, albeit slowly. Really just need to be patient with yourself.

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3 minutes ago, pothocket said:

same fam

No, but seriously - despite how easy it is to get discouraged, I feel like it does get easier over time, albeit slowly. Really just need to be patient with yourself.

The hardest part is honing your social skills after spending so long on the shelf.

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On 11/19/2016 at 4:14 PM, Sir Gibby said:

Hey I haven't seen you around in a brazillian years

how you been?

Stable and functioning for the time being. Thank you for asking. :)

I made a concious decision to reduce the frequency of my visits to Phoenix once a serious round of low-key political tribalism began to flare into existence roughly around the time Trump began making a big name for himself across the US. 

It was kind of unnerving. You could especially feel the tension in the Watercooler and R&R whenever a post or thread concerning liberals or Europe's migrant troubles popped up.

Though I might be exaggerating just a bit, because now that I think about it, it was honestly about four or five people who were unbearablely vitriolic in political threads. 

 

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4 hours ago, Hux said:

My social skills are shit. Literal shit. Like, human feces.

Well, look at conversations like forum topics I'd say. There are many ways to handle them social relations.

How I do it:

It consists of 2 parts, listening and talking. If you listen well enough you can get to know a person, and what will be relevant things to say to him/her. If you don't/can't, you probably need an introductory conversation and actually ask stuff. Sometimes you say wrong things, but never enough to let people hold a grudge.

If you mean social as in out-going and popular than we're in the same boat. Self-classified introverts are the best! Always so thoughtful.

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8 hours ago, Shill Sham said:

If you mean here, don't know what to tell you.  In day to day life, just smile and say what's up.  Ask them how they are doing or what's going on.  Continuing making small talk and the conversation will grow naturally allowing you to move on from there.

Kind of weird that works offline more so than online. A lot of people absolutely dread small talk and that tends to makes things awkward, like you're that person they are the least bit interested in and wish would go away.

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19 hours ago, I Did It For The Cat Girls said:

Stable and functioning for the time being. Thank you for asking. :)

I made a concious decision to reduce the frequency of my visits to Phoenix once a serious round of low-key political tribalism began to flare into existence roughly around the time Trump began making a big name for himself across the US. 

It was kind of unnerving. You could especially feel the tension in the Watercooler and R&R whenever a post or thread concerning liberals or Europe's migrant troubles popped up.

Though I might be exaggerating just a bit, because now that I think about it, it was honestly about four or five people who were unbearablely vitriolic in political threads. 

 

I wasn't the only one who noticed this then.

I wonder how much of all that rhetoric and hyperbole was trolling and shitposting and how much was serious, though.

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How some components fit in the breadboard fine yet others need real effort to shove in the holes.

This is especially a problem for me as one of the parts that is a right sod to fit is the 7805 regulator I got, if this doesn't go in properly the IC I have running off the 5 volts ish this regulator puts out may get 9 volts instead. If that happens then bye-bye IC, hello magic smoke.

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Company be like, yeah sure come on over this tuesday for an internship interview.

Nearly there..

Oh no, I'm sorry, other guy was double booked and can't be here and there is no replacement. How 'bout we take up another day of yours next week? Also, if you want a better chance at actually getting an internship, become part of our studentclub. They get jobs/assignments before regular people, as well as tons of other benefits.

What is this? Ads for recruiting in a company?

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I just lost 400mb of data from my mobile plan because my Android decided it was going to download a system update that was that size, over my mobile data connection instead of wifi.

My service provider says they can't give me back that data. It's possible the low level customer rep I'm talking to in India or wherever probably can't do that for me.

I don't know if there's a way to turn off android updates through mobile. A tech friend for Verizon says no, although I'm not on verizon. I've turned off "background data" for now.

But it pisses me off. My phone is ver 4.4.4, the least that 400mb update could do would be to upgrade it to ver 5 Lolipop. Maybe I should just install a rom.

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11 hours ago, Crazy Lee said:

I just lost 400mb of data from my mobile plan because my Android decided it was going to download a system update that was that size, over my mobile data connection instead of wifi.

My service provider says they can't give me back that data. It's possible the low level customer rep I'm talking to in India or wherever probably can't do that for me.

I don't know if there's a way to turn off android updates through mobile. A tech friend for Verizon says no, although I'm not on verizon. I've turned off "background data" for now.

But it pisses me off. My phone is ver 4.4.4, the least that 400mb update could do would be to upgrade it to ver 5 Lolipop. Maybe I should just install a rom.

That happened to me too. I'm on T-Mobile and had background restricted and everything. It's incredibly insistent, too. It'll act like  you have no choice but to install it, but just hit the home or back button. Be sure to wait until your on wifi because there'll be another big one right after that.

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This irritates me more than it should. I think because I understand that the more likes, comments, and shares a FB page gets the more attention and possibly ad dollars or something that page will generate.

https://www.facebook.com/DeceptionExpert/videos/515681688613689/

I hope I linked it properly. The first clue should be that his page is called "Deception Expert" in the URL.

To explain what he does, is he has you take your age, do a bunch of math on it, and you magically get the number 21. I played around with it with a few numbers, but was pretty quick to figure out HOW he does it. And the fact he tells you to "like" the post in the middle of the trick to "lock in" the number, and then share and like the page if he gets it right.

Okay, so the math goes: Take your age, add 3, subtract 5, add 7. (So, in other words, 5 + your age). Then he tells you to like to lock in your number, and there's a reason why. He then has you subtract your age, add 5, multiply by 2, and then add 1.

Here's the trick to it. You added your age... and then you subtracted it, with no multiplication happening at that time. So basically the first half of the equation is [age] + 5 - [age], or using math simplification is [age] - [age] + 5, or just 5. You basically negate your fucking age from the equation. The rest doesn't matter, you'll always get 21. The full equation is basically ( [age] + 3 - 5 + 7 - [age] + 5) * 2 + 1. Anyone who knows how to simplify or solve equations knows you can remove the age component, then you get ([age] - [age] + 3 - 5 + 7 + 5) * 2 + 1 or (10) * 2 + 1, or 21.

So he's a scam artist ass who wants that beautiful FB attention and cash...

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[1:44:10 AM] Fen: I bitched out my roommate today
[1:44:19 AM] Mr. Sparta: Yay
[1:44:34 AM] Fen: Because his game's internet was fucking up, so he asked me what I was on and I told him "the internet"
[1:45:01 AM] Fen: And the very rudely told his friends "Jeff's on the internet. That's all he does, he has no job..." and that's where I started to bitch him out
[1:45:08 AM] Fen: I told him to remember whose house he lives in
[1:45:31 AM] Fen: And that I've been trying to get a job
[1:45:51 AM] Fen: I asked him if he was high (he told me no, but I somewhat don't believe him)
[1:46:27 AM] Fen: then I told him it's not like he's paying for it, which he retorted he kind of is (he gives us 50 dollars per paycheck, so 100 dollars, WOW)
[1:46:40 AM] Fen: I told him that mostly goes on groceries, and he said we could use it to pay WIFI instead
[1:46:53 AM] Fen: he told me I was making a big deal out of nothing
[1:47:51 AM] Mr. Sparta: To be fair, $50 shouldn't be enough if you're struggling
[1:48:20 AM] Fen: It's not, honestly
[1:48:31 AM] Fen: He doesn't do his dishes
[1:48:36 AM] Fen: he can't cook
[1:48:40 AM] Fen: HE LEFT THE STOVE ON ONCE
[1:50:13 AM] Fen: He doesn't plan on sleeping tonight :')

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Why the fuck is there a goddamn turkey on my MOTHERFUCKING BANNER!?!?1

WTF MODS? WHAT HAPPENED TO "TRANSPARENCY"? HUH? WHY WEREN'T WE FUCKING TOLD ABOUT TGIS!??!?!1

What, is it avian vore day or something?

Fucking PERVERTS!?

I'LL LEAVE THE FURRUMS FUREVER

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3 hours ago, Hux said:

Why the fuck is there a goddamn turkey on my MOTHERFUCKING BANNER!?!?1

WTF MODS? WHAT HAPPENED TO "TRANSPARENCY"? HUH? WHY WEREN'T WE FUCKING TOLD ABOUT TGIS!??!?!1

What, is it avian vore day or something?

Fucking PERVERTS!?

I'LL LEAVE THE FURRUMS FUREVER

Good. Take your shitty Wikihow articles with you.

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3 hours ago, Hux said:

Why the fuck is there a goddamn turkey on my MOTHERFUCKING BANNER!?!?1

WTF MODS? WHAT HAPPENED TO "TRANSPARENCY"? HUH? WHY WEREN'T WE FUCKING TOLD ABOUT TGIS!??!?!1

What, is it avian vore day or something?

Fucking PERVERTS!?

I'LL LEAVE THE FURRUMS FUREVER

Oshi, they're on to us! All mods, this is Mod Phoenix! Operation Have the Forums for Thanksgiving has been compromised! Abort, abort, abort! Cover the pool, extinguish the propane, and move the peanut oil back to the underground bunker! I say again, Operation Have the Forums for Thanksgiving has been compromised! Abort, abort, abort! Mod Phoenix out!

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The United Kingdom is planning to record all of our browsing histories. This is going to start in December.

After this they plan to block all websites they deem pornographic, if they do not require credit card or electoral registration to access.

However, even the sites which will be left will be limited to pornography that is deemed 'conventional'. Handcuffs, dressing as school girls, or anything else that most people would consider tame are all considered 'unconventional' by the British government.

 

._.

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When component datasheets have conflicting information as to what additonal ones need connecting for said component to work.

Manufactures please make up your minds as to weather the 7805 regulator needs or doesn't need decoupling caps between earth and its input pin, output pin, or both.

And if it does need capacitors would it hurt to tell me what capacitance and dielectric they have to be?

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5 minutes ago, Saxon said:

The United Kingdom is planning to record all of our browsing histories. This is going to start in December.

After this they plan to block all websites they deem pornographic, if they do not require credit card or electoral registration to access.

However, even the sites which will be left will be limited to pornography that is deemed 'conventional'. Handcuffs, dressing as school girls, or anything else that most people would consider tame are all considered 'unconventional' by the British government.

 

._.

Oh wow, that's all the motivation I need to actually move away from here.

Meanwhile I'll freak them out with my browsing history and enjoy it

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9 minutes ago, Sir Gibby said:

just use a proxy from ireland or something

I don't think we should have to worry about the government recording all of the content we read in the first place, and it's an affront that they think it's any of their business whether somebody gets off to 'non-conventional' sex. :\

 

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I hate how much my compile times get fucked in the ass when I set brush entities to opaque lightflags.

 

if anyone gives a shit I can post a nerd essay explaining this more in depth, but basically this has tripled the amount of time it takes Hammer to perform all the necessary calculations and compile this map into a format usable by Half-Life

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2 hours ago, Victor-933 said:

I hate how much my compile times get fucked in the ass when I set brush entities to opaque lightflags.

 

if anyone gives a shit I can post a nerd essay explaining this more in depth, but basically this has tripled the amount of time it takes Hammer to perform all the necessary calculations and compile this map into a format usable by Half-Life

Ah, that takes me back! I fooled around with Hammer so much in college. I regret never releasing any of it though.

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12 hours ago, Saxon said:

The United Kingdom is planning to record all of our browsing histories. This is going to start in December.

After this they plan to block all websites they deem pornographic, if they do not require credit card or electoral registration to access.

However, even the sites which will be left will be limited to pornography that is deemed 'conventional'. Handcuffs, dressing as school girls, or anything else that most people would consider tame are all considered 'unconventional' by the British government.

 

._.

So they can see what you browse?

Be sure to look up extra kinky shit, like really odd fetishes and whatnot. And maybe organize a movement to flood the government logs with weird shit until they stop.

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27 minutes ago, Saxon said:

*sigh* fur affinity is down. ;^;

 

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On 11/25/2016 at 0:36 AM, DrGravitas said:

Ah, that takes me back! I fooled around with Hammer so much in college. I regret never releasing any of it though.

Grav got hammered in College. Too bad we will never see pics.

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