Tsuujou Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 So my personal group I hang out with hasn't heard from one of our friends we've known since 4th grade. He doesn't answer any sort of responses and anything we need involving him is never followed through. He doesn't attempt to come to any sort of group activities we have. Like we're trying to go to a beach house for a week soon and we're splitting the rent between us. We planned this earlier in the year and he claimed to be joining us. We need his reservation money like SOON so we can reserve it or the price jumps up significantly for all of us. But he isn't answering anything. Truth be told I kind of miss him too. This has been going on for close to 8 months now and I know the exact reason.He has a new girlfriend.The last time any of us spoke to him, was when one of us asked if he was coming to this Smash tourney he agreed to go to. The day before they were going to go he said no. The problem is he was the ride since he knew the fastest route to get there which left my friend hanging. My friend wasn't mad, but confused. When asked why, he just responded "Girlfriend. Nothing else is important." like some kind of thirsty ass ServBot. This was a month ago. Apparently he even blocked one of my friend's number because he doesn't want to be bothered by us while he spends his days with his girlfriend. His own FAMILY doesn't even hear from him anymore. I think he blew off an important event with them just to be with his girl. That was when we were like "wtf is going on?". I could understand if work or school was keeping him busy, but most of my group goes to the same college as him. They've seen him twice since May. And no, it's not that his girlfriend is doing something to him. This is him acting like this. He's actually been like this even in high school, but it was horomone driven high school so it was w/e. :lNow, maybe I just sucked at being a boyfriend the few times I dated, but was I...supposed to devote every waking moment of my time to them? Is this common to completely ditch your friends and family and in some cases even fuck them over using "Girlfriend. Leave me alone" as the reason? I've literally seen him once since January. It's October. I was a full time student and I made ample time for everyone when I was dating. So did everyone else I knew who was in a relationship. Hell, some were married with kids and still at the very least responded to the important messages/calls. I kind of don't get it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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