MissFleece Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Update on my relationship mishap from forums past:Talked with GF, she agreed the relationship was unhealthy and we are still friends. She thinks she might be aro ace and it upsets her. She's still going to be my roommate, but she's planning on pitching in more. It appears she's going to follow through, and I remain cautiously optimistic. So! I didn't get beaten up and now I'm back on the market! Yay. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summercat Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 I've been single for a long time until I met my coyote.Dunno if it's anything to be awesome about. Being on the market means a lot of work and effort. Breaking up is such a faff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 I'm glad things went well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted September 25, 2015 Author Share Posted September 25, 2015 I've been single for a long time until I met my coyote.Dunno if it's anything to be awesome about. Being on the market means a lot of work and effort. Breaking up is such a faff.Lol I welcome being single after this relationship, let me tell you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summercat Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Lol I welcome being single after this relationship, let me tell you. I guess it's like being jobless from a really bad job 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted September 25, 2015 Author Share Posted September 25, 2015 I guess it's like being jobless from a really bad jobPlus I enjoy being single. I find the freedom that comes with it suits me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra.Exe Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 I'm glad to hear things were settled without too much incident. Hope things are better from here on out.And hey, being single is not so bad. I enjoy my singleness. :3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChaosCalix Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 My own relationship kinda just exploded last night, so it's good to see someone else get out of theirs well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derin Darkpaw Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Dating type relationships have always just seemed like too much work to get into and keep going. Being single has worked out for me so far. Breaking up is such a faff.Indeed it is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pGkY_RHJIs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summercat Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Dating type relationships have always just seemed like too much work to get into and keep going. Being single has worked out for me so far. Indeed it is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pGkY_RHJIsI'm far too much of an emotional coward to click that link. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolflich Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 I like being single. If there were more of me it would be too confusing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted September 25, 2015 Author Share Posted September 25, 2015 Indeed it is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pGkY_RHJIshow the fuck did you have something so perfect for this situation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summercat Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 how the fuck did you have something so perfect for this situation?If that's Mongrels and the song "Breaking Up Is Such A Faff", I was directly referencing it >_> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted September 25, 2015 Author Share Posted September 25, 2015 If that's Mongrels and the song "Breaking Up Is Such A Faff", I was directly referencing it >_>lol yup. Went right on over my head. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hewge Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Congratulations! ;D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mentova Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Glad you got out of a shitty relationship. That's no fun :c Also since other people are saying it, I actually hate being single. I get lonely really easy and I don't have a good track record with the ladies :C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 I dislike being single to an extent, but really, I need to focus on getting better before getting a bf/gf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derin Darkpaw Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 how the fuck did you have something so perfect for this situation?Yeah like Summercat already said he referenced the song and I picked it up from there. Its a fun show and I think you can watch all the episodes on Hulu. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Misomie Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 It's great that everything went over well. In your last thread you made it sound like a hazard zone. Make sure to start only buying food for yourself, lol (if needed, just buy food day by day to prevent mooching). I recall that was a biggie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaizy Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Well I'm glad things worked out for ya. It's always good when you can still remain friends with ex's. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llamapotamus Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Well, I hope she's better as a roommate than as a violent girlfriend. I agree with the phrase 'cautiously optimistic'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Doggo Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 So! I didn't get beaten up and now I'm back on the market! Yay. excellent job, glad you're out of itwhere do you plan on starting the bidding? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted September 25, 2015 Author Share Posted September 25, 2015 excellent job, glad you're out of itwhere do you plan on starting the bidding?debating between furbuy and ebay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sar Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 It's great to hear that things are on the mend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiy0 Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 nice to hear that your out off this mess. now lets just hope that this "still be friends" thing will work out cuz if not your in the next desaster and this could end even worse. .o. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarcastic Coffeecup Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Shitty relationships are...shitty.Glad you got out of it without a fight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted September 25, 2015 Author Share Posted September 25, 2015 Shitty relationships are...shitty.Glad you got out of it without a fightWe're both pretty passive most the time. I guess I was just trying to find EVERYTHING wrong and freak out about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clove Darkwave Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 It's a bit concerning that you're still allowing this person to live with you, but that is your own call to make given your better view of context. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaedal Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 Being single has its advantages. No commitments or obligations. You can focus entirely on improving yourself, surveying the market and i imagine you're leaving the relationship with a lesson or two. Sure, there are downsides, but let's not focus on them 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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