Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 I mentioned it in the General Chat, but dammit, it's bothering me. I can't stop thinking about fucking Rolfe. I feel like such an idiot,a childish idiot, for not being able to stop thinking about this character. I've tried everything to not think about him but it just won't fucking work. I know I'm annoying people with it and I want to stop but I can't because my mind keeps telling me yes. Why must I be obsessed with this fucking character? I hate myself so much right now. Fuck, I'm annoying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DevilishlyHandsome49 Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 (edited) Sidewalk, its fine. You're passionate about something you like. Nothing bad about that. If you come to accept that, maybe it will calm down after a while.And look at me for fuck's sake look at my sig, my avatar, the Fallout 4 thread. Im obsessive as fuck for this game and its ALWAYS on my mind. Im planning to get all my schoolwork done in advance just so i can play it with interruptions. Hell! I wanna make sweet rolls and buy the Nuka Cola Quantom from Target. I nerd out over every trailer and bit of info released. Ive banned myself from comment sections so I wont get the game spoiled.I even play Fallout Shelter all the time and downloaded that Fallout Chat appTrust me, your obsessiveness could be a lot worse Edited November 4, 2015 by DevilishlyHandsome49 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luka Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 Uh, obsessed with a character? How does that work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuujou Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 Uh, obsessed with a character? How does that work?Let's ask MadThad. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 4, 2015 Author Share Posted November 4, 2015 Uh, obsessed with a character? How does that work?It's simple. I think about the character 24/7, almost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troj Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 The big question is always whether your obsession with something is affecting your functioning in other areas, like school, work, your social life, your love life, your self-care, or other hobbies and interests.If you're bothered by your obsession because other people have teased you for it, or because part of you feels it's "wrong" or "weird," that's a different kettle of fish.My sense is that if you attempt to force yourself to not think of this character, the thoughts will come back even more strongly. So, that usually doesn't work.What can work is a) expanding your interest to include other things, so that it becomes broader and more multi-faceted, b) trying to replace an obsessive thought with a different type of thought, c) trying to "reframe" your undesirable thoughts to become something more positive, d) talking to your doctor and/or therapist if you think your tendency to fixate and obsess feels intrusive and genuinely abnormal, and/or e) finding other people who share your interest, so you can get it out of your system without guilt or anxiety.I'm someone who typically needs to get fixations out of my system by talking about them and getting to focus intently on them for a while. When I'm allowed to do that somewhere, I find that my level of fixation ultimately tapers off naturally. When I can't find an outlet for my obsession, I tend to circle around the barn, so to speak, until that outlet is found. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexxx-Returns Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 I can't stop thinking about fucking Rolfe.Oh my ~ 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFleece Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 I constantly think about fanfic pairings so I mean it could be worse... When I was your age I constantly talked about Gaara from naruto. Like 24/7 You kind of grow out of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clove Darkwave Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 Say it with me OP 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexxx-Returns Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 You kind of grow out of it.'Fraid this isn't true for everyone.I still swoon for days if I have a dream about Beelzemon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vae Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 If you're worried about annoying people with it, just keep it to relevant places and groups?I mean, I talk about the lings a lot more than I do here,but I keep that to Tumblr, some friends, and occasionally my art galleries,where I actually have an audience with interest in that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 4, 2015 Author Share Posted November 4, 2015 Oh my ~That's not what I meant, but ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vallium Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 marry the damn guy already! (:V) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#00Buck Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Seek professional help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 marry the damn guy already! (:V)>implying me and my wolf husbando aren't already married Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luka Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 that thing looks creepy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 that thing looks creepyThat's so rudeHe's a cutieCutie in a scarf 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kellie Gator Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Honestly, it's better to obsess over fictional character than real people....I just realized how ironic that is coming from me. ANYWAY, my point is, at least you're not like that Björk fanatic who killed himself. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 Honestly, it's better to obsess over fictional character than real people....I just realized how ironic that is coming from me. ANYWAY, my point is, at least you're not like that Björk fanatic who killed himself.Yeah, that's true. I may be weird and obsessive, but I'm not THAT crazy. Though, some of you may think I am for obsessing over him :V Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamedog Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Iirc youre still pretty young When were your age we tend to obsess over things, real or not. Sometimes these things can be infatuations with cartoon characters and other times it can be real people who are unobtainable (justin bieber, 1 direction)Thing is, evem though you may not want to admit it, these infatuations disintegrate after a while. We lose interest 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troj Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Oh yeah, I agree with Kellie.I always get chills down my back when I see someone absolutely obsessing over a real person, because at least you can't kill a fictional character, field of study, or theoretical construct for not loving you enough.Your fixation is Jodie Foster-approved. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 Iirc youre still pretty young When were your age we tend to obsess over things, real or not. Sometimes these things can be infatuations with cartoon characters and other times it can be real people who are unobtainable (justin bieber, 1 direction)Thing is, evem though you may not want to admit it, these infatuations disintegrate after a while. We lose interestI'm kinda scared it won't, though. I've been obsessive since a very young age. It's scary. Here have another Rolfe for the hell of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarcastic Coffeecup Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 He really hits the nerve somehow. I don't understand why this Rolfe, but whatever floats your boat I guess. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willow Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 eh, I think most people have that one character or thing that they're totally obsessed with and that's okaychannel it into something good. like art. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 He really hits the nerve somehow. I don't understand why this Rolfe, but whatever floats your boat I guess.I can kinda see why he would do that. Hell, a lot of people find the entire RAE creepy. I think it's the flesh colored face that does it for most people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kellie Gator Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 I can kinda see why he would do that. Hell, a lot of people find the entire RAE creepy. I think it's the flesh colored face that does it for most people.For me it's the weird, unnatural blush. It's so unsettling to me. D: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 For me it's the weird, unnatural blush. It's so unsettling to me. D:But the blush is the cutest part Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra.Exe Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 For me it's the weird, unnatural blush. It's so unsettling to me. D:I think the cheeks in general look weird. They don't seem right in their placement. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kellie Gator Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 But the blush is the cutest partBut he looks all drunk and sinister! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vae Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 (edited) I just think they come off like anthros with mange,between the bare skin, fur textures, and redness,but eh. Edited November 6, 2015 by Vae 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolflich Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 I just assumed it was a burn victim or something. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 7, 2015 Author Share Posted November 7, 2015 Dammit, all 3 of you made me giggle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaraphayx Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 There are only so many options OP. Make a concerted effort to change, accept what you are, or wallow in the purgatory of self-loathing indefinitely. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexxx-Returns Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 I'm kinda scared it won't, though. I've been obsessive since a very young age. It's scary. Here have another Rolfe for the hell of itChances are you'll move onto another character(s) to obsess over in your adult life. TRUST ME, you will still be obsessed with at least one character. I'm 23. t won't stop. Help me.What will happen though is the intensity of the obsessions will lessen. Instead of spending every waking moment thinking about them, you'll be doing your usual thing and sort of... waiting for the day virtual reality becomes sophisticated enough to actually fuck them (and saving up the money to do this). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hewge Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 wtf is that thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 7, 2015 Author Share Posted November 7, 2015 wtf is that thingMy husbando 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra.Exe Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 Time to put him where he belongs. 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azu Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 (edited) I mean like. It could be worse. You could be obsessed with Snarf, for instance Edited November 7, 2015 by Azurex 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted November 7, 2015 Author Share Posted November 7, 2015 Time to put him where he belongs.IN THE TRAAAAAAAAAAAASH Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamedog Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 An infatuation won't go away unless you make steps to push it away. MAKING YOUR ROLFE SIMS MAKE OUT IS NOT HELPING IS WHATN IM SAYING! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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