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2 minutes ago, Battlechili said:

I currently have the chance to speak with my biological father, whom of which abandoned me and my biological mother 20 years ago. Would it be a good idea to try and contact this person? Or should I just let it go? I realize asking a bunch of furries a question like this is kind of silly, but I just wanted people's opinions as I'm not sure how to look at this. The thing is, is that I have no personal attachments to this person. But I care about other people and how they feel, and I can't help but wonder if he has some regrets or has any interest in speaking with me, and realizing that any form of contact after all this time would be awkward, I could understand why such a person, even if they felt that way, wouldn't bother to try and contact me. I figured trying to reach out to my biological father would be giving him the chance to act on any regrets/possible desires to speak with me, if such exists. But on the other hand, if he's never tried to speak with me after all this time, does he really want to have a relationship with me?

Its something that's been on my mind, and I was looking to get some advice.

Better to give it a shot than regret not trying. 

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4 minutes ago, Battlechili said:

I currently have the chance to speak with my biological father, whom of which abandoned me and my biological mother 20 years ago. Would it be a good idea to try and contact this person? Or should I just let it go? I realize asking a bunch of furries a question like this is kind of silly, but I just wanted people's opinions as I'm not sure how to look at this. The thing is, is that I have no personal attachments to this person. But I care about other people and how they feel, and I can't help but wonder if he has some regrets or has any interest in speaking with me, and realizing that any form of contact after all this time would be awkward, I could understand why such a person, even if they felt that way, wouldn't bother to try and contact me. I figured trying to reach out to my biological father would be giving him the chance to act on any regrets/possible desires to speak with me, if such exists. But on the other hand, if he's never tried to speak with me after all this time, does he really want to have a relationship with me?

Its something that's been on my mind, and I was looking to get some advice.

I would say try it, but be cautious about it.

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17 minutes ago, Endless/Nameless said:

Better to give it a shot than regret not trying. 

 

15 minutes ago, FenrirDarkWolf said:

I would say try it, but be cautious about it.

I was thinking that too, its just that I can't imagine someone in such a position would actually be able to say "No, I don't have any interest in having a relationship with you", which makes things more complicated because I want him to be honest if I were to contact him. I don't want him to think he's obligated to care about me.

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I've got the right amount of women in my life, Nuucat (see fa) is my lovely mate, and we've gone and done that really crazy thing of getting engaged. It's not rushed or anything since we've been in this relationship since June of 2012 and we're getting to points in our life where we can actually start looking at the long term future.

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Goddamn you Clint Eastwood. Your movies are the only ones that always make my cry like a little bitch. Gran Torino, The Bridges of Madison County and now J. Edgar

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4 minutes ago, Amiir said:

Goddamn you Clint Eastwood. Your movies are the only ones that always make my cry like a little bitch. Gran Torino, The Bridges of Madison County and now J. Edgar

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His movies are always so good. 

I really want to see Gran Torino.....

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3 hours ago, Endless/Nameless said:

Too bad I'm in a library and the library network's filter considers FA "pornographic material". Mind you I'm on my own notebook, the library's ACTUAL wireless/wired network is filtered.

Maybe that's not such a bad thing.

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Hmm. Is there some way I can better save links to cars I'm looking at? I have a text document but I have to copy/paste into my browser. I also have emails of links, but impossible to delete links of cars that are no longer for sale. Is there something in Google docs or drive that would work? Where I can just drop a link and it converts to a clickable link? Or should I get a pinterest or something?

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8 minutes ago, Crazy Lee said:

Hmm. Is there some way I can better save links to cars I'm looking at? I have a text document but I have to copy/paste into my browser. I also have emails of links, but impossible to delete links of cars that are no longer for sale. Is there something in Google docs or drive that would work? Where I can just drop a link and it converts to a clickable link? Or should I get a pinterest or something?

Is making a folder in your browser's favorites not an option or something?

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1 minute ago, Crazy Lee said:

Hmm. Is there some way I can better save links to cars I'm looking at? I have a text document but I have to copy/paste into my browser. I also have emails of links, but impossible to delete links of cars that are no longer for sale. Is there something in Google docs or drive that would work? Where I can just drop a link and it converts to a clickable link? Or should I get a pinterest or something?

If you only ever use one Web browser, you can use its bookmarks feature to manage even ephemeral links like these.  When you bookmark the first link, make a bookmarks folder to put them all in.  As you bookmark each one, rename them so you can find them quickly again, and save them in this new folder.  As each bookmark becomes irrelevant, right-click on the bookmark and choose Delete from the pop-up menu.

Otherwise, use a WordPad document to paste your links in, each link on its own line.  If it doesn't make your links clickable, then triple-click on a link to select the whole line, then drag the selection into your Web browser window.  Drop it in the window or address bar to use the same tab, or drop it between tabs to open it in its own tab.  Don't use Notepad because it doesn't let you drag selections around.

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18 minutes ago, FenrirDarkWolf said:

Did you pull me from the ground, because I'm a potato.

Alright, small fry. You're just asking to be buttered up, so you'd better keep your eyes peeled

You're gonna get real agi-tatered someday when someone plucks you out of the dirt and cooks you. You'll be boiling mad

 

that was awful and I'm sorry

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34 minutes ago, DrDingo said:

Alright, small fry. You're just asking to be buttered up, so you'd better keep your eyes peeled

You're gonna get real agi-tatered someday when someone plucks you out of the dirt and cooks you. You'll be boiling mad

 

that was awful and I'm sorry

i love you don't go

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12 minutes ago, FenrirDarkWolf said:

I saw this in the 'recent' box and was just so ready to link that song, but you had it already pre-linked.

Darn.

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13 minutes ago, FenrirDarkWolf said:

*sigh* You're supposed to throw shit at him from a car while covering your plates.

Fuckin' amateurs.

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