#00Buck Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Does anyone else here crave physical contact? It does not have to be in a sexual way but in any way that makes you feel good or loved and appreciated? I don't think there's enough physical contact in my life. Maybe rugby is the answer? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hux Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 I don't like physical contact unless it's from someone I care for, otherwise it's just weird or gross. Yes, rugby is the answer. Feeling that satisfying crunch as another player knocks the wind out of you tends to make one feel loved. Instant dopamine rush. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrishaCat Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 I don't think rugby will give feelings of love and appreciation. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Conker Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 I don't really care for physical contact. Even when I was dating and actually enjoying dating, things like hand holding or snuggling together was just a bother. Bitch get out of my personal space. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lopaw Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Don't like it happening unexpectedly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eggdodger Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 People seem to instinctively want to touch my hair. I only like being touched by people I'm close to. Otherwise I'm slapping their hand or face. That being said, I'm very open to affection once I'm good friends with somebody. Hugs and cuddles are just par for the course =) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrDingo Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Yes. And furries tend to agree with you because they're mad about hugs I also like hugs. They feel good. I just don't really get them often 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jtrekkie Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Sometimes being touched is nice. Sometimes touching is nice. Sometimes being touched is unbearable. Touch is the most basic form of communication; more primitive than sound and the first we know. Cue monkeys holding hands in the dark. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luca Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I've been good touched and bad touched. Honestly the biggest difference to me is how much I know a person. I don't mind if my friends are gonna put their hands on my shoulder, but if anyone else tries to do it I'm gonna shrug you off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy Lee Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Awww fish, do you want someone to touch you? I'll touch you if you want... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastryOfApathy Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I'm a lonely virgin so yes. me irl 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hux Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 13 minutes ago, PastryOfApathy said: I'm a lonely virgin so yes. me irl Ew. Who the fuck wants to touch a rat? :v 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vallium Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I wish I was less anxious about physical contact because I would initiate touching more often with more people, I hardly do it unless someone else initiates it first. I have a few odd rare times initiated it for strangers or acquaintances, both when they were feeling down and both a hand touch on the shoulder, probably the easiest form of nice-but-not-too-creepy-not-too-close touching. Ive gotten way more cuddles in my life in the past 1-3 years so for that I am greatful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victor-933 Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy Lee Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 43 minutes ago, PastryOfApathy said: I'm a lonely virgin so yes. me irl That's a huge fucking rat. ....Where can I get one of these that's cute and I need to cuddle it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DevilBear Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I don't particularly crave it. I'm not big on holding hands or hugging or what have you. When I was dating my ex, I had to tell her multiple times I can't sleep if she's touching me. Dogs on the other hand- Gimme all the puppies to pet and snuggle and love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Another Ampers& Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Touching By #00Buck, 3 hours ago Hmmm.... Rave: Slapping people By #00Buck, Sunday at 2:25 AM HMMMMMM.... 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luka Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Ew no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#00Buck Posted August 9, 2016 Author Share Posted August 9, 2016 4 minutes ago, Another Ampers& said: Touching By #00Buck, 3 hours ago Hmmm.... Rave: Slapping people By #00Buck, Sunday at 2:25 AM HMMMMMM.... Hey, I know what I like. 1 hour ago, PastryOfApathy said: I'm a lonely virgin so yes. me irl Are you really a virgin? 2 hours ago, DrDingo said: Yes. And furries tend to agree with you because they're mad about hugs I also like hugs. They feel good. I just don't really get them often I'd hug you anytime! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Endless/Nameless Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 :c 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastryOfApathy Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 7 hours ago, Hux said: Ew. Who the fuck wants to touch a rat? :v I can think of some people... :^3 ... Like me. They are cute and I would pet them. 6 hours ago, #00Buck said: Are you really a virgin? That's not exactly the kinda thing people generally lie about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Another Ampers& Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 47 minutes ago, PastryOfApathy said: I can think of some people... :^3 we get together every tuesday night and form a circle around her, petting from 8 till 10 it's a tough job and damn does your hand chafe afterwards but someone has to do it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hux Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 2 hours ago, Another Ampers& said: we get together every tuesday night and form a circle around her, petting from 8 till 10 it's a tough job and damn does your hand chafe afterwards but someone has to do it I bet she doesn't even pay you guys minimum wage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastryOfApathy Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 3 hours ago, Another Ampers& said: we get together every tuesday night and form a circle around her, petting from 8 till 10 it's a tough job and damn does your hand chafe afterwards but someone has to do it gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vae Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I have an anxious and rather violent reaction to being touched, especially unexpectedly. So no touchy. Touchy bad. I do allow it from people that have known me and been close to me for a long time (think 10+ years), but I still avoid it when I can. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xaende Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 How I feel about it depends on the context and who is doing the touching. I crave hugs and cuddles in a relationship, for instance, but don't like it when strangers touch me or otherwise invade my personal space. Especially if it's without warning. I am okay with random hugs from fursuiters though, provided they're cute and not creepy. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nova Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I dont like it when people touch me that arent related to me. Shaking the hand is ok but poking my arm makes me nervous. Only my family members are allowed to do that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapa Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I don't have any particularly strong feelings toward physical contact, but I prefer not to be touched at all. Unless you're a dog. In that case, give me all the cuddles. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aouzy Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 If you have no one to touch, just touch yourself. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eggdodger Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 4 hours ago, Sylver said: I enjoy a good massage though. I like giving massages. People always seem to really appreciate them. Probably because it's really hard to give yourself a massage? They're nice to get, too. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyRadarEars Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I only touch and allow people to touch me that I care about like family. Anyone else touching me gives me heebiejeebies and anxiety attacks wheee. With my loved ones though if I'm not tired I'm kind of attached and flopped all over them and bothering them all the time, so I guess I'm touchy-feely with people I like. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sidewalk Surfboard Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Most lonely furfags crave affection, yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 It's not so much about touching for me but more about being physically with people I appreciate. As nice as the internet is I'd like to be able to see my online acquaintances before my very eyes, hear their actual voice, nothing of this through a computer but in real life. This I crave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 Casual touch is good for humans in general. I live with another person, and even on the couch or when we sleep together, there's always some casual touching. Hell, when I'm at my desk and he's at his, sometimes I'll go over, say hello with a kiss, and go back to whatever I was doing. Touch is important for the vast majority of people. The best touches can and should be reserved for the person you're living with at home, like your wife, or your husband or your boyfriend, girlfirend, whatever whatever. Casual physical intimacy is also important to, things like hugging your friends or giving high fives and whatnot. For whatever reason, my friends and I are much more affectionate and we snug watching movies or reading and stuff. My best friend and I take naps together with her big dog. Its great! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vitaly Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 Touching in correct places makes me feel like a princess. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Augmented Husky Posted August 11, 2016 Share Posted August 11, 2016 I'd say it's very croucial to all my close relationships as long as of course the other person has a similar take so that we are both comfy. Now normally I'm great with a good high five and pat on the shoulder but if things progess to mutual platonic affection then expect me to hug at every visit The only expection is things like if your sweaty or something but that goes for most people. Also I'm pretty experienced with shoulder massages so that helped me get candy from my teacher way back in the 5th Grade Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eggdodger Posted August 11, 2016 Share Posted August 11, 2016 6 minutes ago, Augmented Husky said: Now normally I'm great with a good high five and pat on the shoulder but if things progess to mutual photonic affection then expect me to hug at every visit Whoa whoa whoa, you guys are touching at the photonic level? Is that healthy? Do you have to wear special suits? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy Lee Posted August 11, 2016 Share Posted August 11, 2016 5 minutes ago, Eggdodger said: Whoa whoa whoa, you guys are touching at the photonic level? Is that healthy? Do you have to wear special suits? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Augmented Husky Posted August 11, 2016 Share Posted August 11, 2016 5 minutes ago, Eggdodger said: Whoa whoa whoa, you guys are touching at the photonic level? Is that healthy? Do you have to wear special suits? Not that I can imagine p.s: it's fixed. Thanks for the screwup autocorrect Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyRadarEars Posted August 11, 2016 Share Posted August 11, 2016 6 hours ago, Crazy Lee said: Underrated post. Leslie Nielsen <3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Feelwell Posted August 11, 2016 Share Posted August 11, 2016 Cuddles are nice. I think humans desire physical contact. Probably something to do with being social creatures. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaosmasterdelta Posted August 11, 2016 Share Posted August 11, 2016 I dont like being touched, exspecialy without my consent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#00Buck Posted August 12, 2016 Author Share Posted August 12, 2016 10 hours ago, Chaosmasterdelta said: I dont like being touched, exspecialy without my consent. Then you probably wouldn't like getting slapped. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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